Undefined, uncertain, unpredictable……these are the three basic characteristics of a normal relation… a relation can b categorized in many ways … it completely depends on a particular person……it is not necessary to name a relationship… there can be unnamed relationship… the best among all the relationships is…friendship…..its the purest form of relationship….no grudges, no problems, no expectations, no betrayal….but these can only b possible if friends respect each other’s feelings…..every relationship is mutual…it cannot be one sided always…both the parties need to be equally involved in it…
Not all relationships can be named..there can be relationships which donot need a name…ppl should not look down upon those relationships coz nobdy deliberately makes those unnamed relationships…its like u are forced (with your full will) in those relationships…every relationship that is selfless is the most wonderful thing on this earth..nthng can be better than that…
I sincerely have faith in these lines
Have faith on everyone, trust no one, expect from no one, and u ll never b hurt, coz expectations are the hint towards the imperfectness in ne relationship…..
But sumtymes one can’t help it…if one is in a relationship then expectations arise automatically…even if one donot want to expect….sumtymes we become helpless…one more important thing for a healthy relationship is “space”….it is the most imp ingredient for a healthy relationship….by space I mean…personal space…one should not be too open to ne one..and specially to sumone who is very close to his /her heart….if there is very little or no space then the relationship cannot flourish….ppl will suffocate in that less space…
Relationships can be of many types….there can’t b defined limits of relationships rather relationships cannot b defined in totality coz there are many complicated definitions of a particular relationship…relationship cannot be bound….coz there are not any certified rules of ne relationship….so one can do wotsoever he/she wants…husband-wife, frnds, gf-bf, siblings, best frnds, acquaintances, mother-daughter, mother-son, father-daughter, father-son, …apart frm these basic relationship there are many other types of relationship also..i personally accept any type of relationships without askin “why”….this is the worst question in any relationship… “why”…why dis? Why dat? Gawd…..i personally want to live and let others live…everyone on this earth has got only one life and he/she should do wotsoever he/she wants to do……these restrictions.. society norms….i completely deny those rules and regulations…..u’ve got one life …live it
Relationships understand no boundations…one cannot control it…rather one should not control it..it is flawless…and it should b left like dat…if one starts to control ne relationship then that relationship loses its meaning…once the relationship loses its meaning then it can’t b reformed…and one cannot live with broken relationship….
Sincerely a commendable depiction of accord, affiliation, alliance, analogy..i.e. nothing but "relationship", sumthing dat is essential for our very existence in dis society, be it any form.
ReplyDeleteIt seems to me that the best relationships - the ones that last - are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship...so der ought to be frndship in any relationship.
Reminds me of an old saying.."Relationships-of all kinds-are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost."
I think, the only thing required for a relationship to survive is love, ""selfless love"". if love is present, rest of the things are immaterial. If love is there, u ll start liking the things in that person,which u dun like in other persons.. shaadi ke liye ladka/ladki dhundhna aur pyaar karne mein ek difference hai, I think. baaki I cant say much about relationships, I m too immature for this tpc, I think :D... Waise , 1 thing , I must say .. humanbeings are very clever, apne comfort ke hisaab se sahi, galat, sensibility,maturity sab define kar dete hain !!!
ReplyDelete@divs..thnkx...and i cmpltly agree
ReplyDelete@anurag....i don't thnk dat only selfless love is needed for ne relationship to survive there are many more imp thngs